Domina Iris prepares for total power exchange and domination in San Fransisco

Dive into the inner workings of my mind though my writings and interviews. I dive into topics ranging from current events, psychology of kink, my origin story, and advice for BDSM beginners.

New York Magazine

The Most Powerful New Yorkers You’ve Never Heard Of

By The Editors | October 23, 2023

“THE POWER TO: Take Their Power Away. Athletes, actors, and executives want the dominatrix Mistress Iris to break them.”

Into The Gloss

Mistress Iris, Dominatrix

By INTO THE GLOSS | June 10, 2021

“Dominating is very much a passion of mine, and I think I face similar challenges as any person who makes their passion into a career.”

Art Director Mistress Iris shoots latex photography in Germany

Art + Play Magazine

Under My Second Skin

By Mistress Iris & Soren Jahan

“It takes an exceptional degree of empathy and listening to map out the mind of your submissive. It takes even more investment and care to help your submissive grow as a person, to unearth their fullest potential, rather than merely regurgitate their fantasy back to them.”

The Daily Beast

A Dominatrix on Why BDSM Business Is Booming During Trump and COVID

By Mistress Iris | September 29, 2020

“Mistress Iris writes about the reasons why people are turning to dominant/submissive roleplay during these chaotic times.”

Femdom Resource

The Boss

By Paltego | March 1, 2020

“There’s something about combining smart conventional outfits and kink. It’s hot in a way I find hard to identify. Maybe it’s the contrast of the implication of strict social norms and then the trangressive element of kink.”

Photo by Alejandra Guerrero


Mistress Iris, the Connoisseur of Tease & Desperation

August 23, 2019

“Sweet, sensual and nurturing, yet wild, mischievous and erotic…the most intoxicating cocktail of contradictions you will ever experience.”

Domina Lady Sas – Femdom and BDSM Blog

Mistress Iris : Connoisseur of Tease

By Lady Sas | May 26, 2018

“Mistress Iris is a ​stunning Los Angeles based Dominatrix. She is an expert in the bittersweet art of Tease and an artist who loves to create amazing pictures and mind-blowing videos. I had the pleasure to ask Mistress Iris some questions.”

Scenes from Department H, a monthly fetish event in Tokyo. Photo: Jake Adelstein

Asia Times

How Japan dominates discount dominatrix market

By Jake Adelstein | March 10, 2018

“You don’t need to slap down a massive wad of cash for a good spank in Japan – but master mistresses warn those seeking a premium whipping should avoid ‘chain’ stores.”


7 Sex Tips From Professional Dominatrixes

By Brittany Wong | February 27, 2018

“We asked professional dominatrixes to share their best, most accessible advice for long-time couples who want to step up their game in the bedroom. No whips required!”

Sakkmesterke via Getty Images


Dominatrixes and Porn Sites Report a Huge BDSM Uptick Since Trump Became President

By Carrie Weisman | March 5, 2017

“Across the country, it seems more people want to get spanked.”

Time Out

The best dominatrix professionals in LA

By Jakob N. Layman | March 14, 2016

“If you’ve suddenly found yourself in the market for a dominatrix, these pro-dommes are the best LA has to offer.”

Photograph: Jakob N. Layman



Photography: Paul Artemis  |  Styling: Kunza
Models: Iris & Adreena

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