Dive into the inner workings of my mind though my writings and interviews. I dive into topics ranging from current events, psychology of kink, my origin story, and advice for BDSM beginners.

Into The Gloss
Mistress Iris, Dominatrix
By INTO THE GLOSS | June 10, 2021
“Dominating is very much a passion of mine, and I think I face similar challenges as any person who makes their passion into a career.”

Art + Play Magazine
Under My Second Skin
By Mistress Iris & Soren Jahan
“It takes an exceptional degree of empathy and listening to map out the mind of your submissive. It takes even more investment and care to help your submissive grow as a person, to unearth their fullest potential, rather than merely regurgitate their fantasy back to them.”


The Daily Beast
A Dominatrix on Why BDSM Business Is Booming During Trump and COVID
By Mistress Iris | September 29, 2020
“Mistress Iris writes about the reasons why people are turning to dominant/submissive roleplay during these chaotic times.”

Femdom Resource
The Boss
By Paltego | March 1, 2020
“There’s something about combining smart conventional outfits and kink. It’s hot in a way I find hard to identify. Maybe it’s the contrast of the implication of strict social norms and then the trangressive element of kink.”

Porte-à-Vie
Mistress Iris, the Connoisseur of Tease & Desperation
August 23, 2019
“Sweet, sensual and nurturing, yet wild, mischievous and erotic…the most intoxicating cocktail of contradictions you will ever experience.”

Domina Lady Sas – Femdom and BDSM Blog
Mistress Iris : Connoisseur of Tease
By Lady Sas | May 26, 2018
“Mistress Iris is a stunning Los Angeles based Dominatrix. She is an expert in the bittersweet art of Tease and an artist who loves to create amazing pictures and mind-blowing videos. I had the pleasure to ask Mistress Iris some questions.”

Asia Times
How Japan dominates discount dominatrix market
By Jake Adelstein | March 10, 2018
“You don’t need to slap down a massive wad of cash for a good spank in Japan – but master mistresses warn those seeking a premium whipping should avoid ‘chain’ stores.”

Huffpost
7 Sex Tips From Professional Dominatrixes
By Brittany Wong | February 27, 2018
“We asked professional dominatrixes to share their best, most accessible advice for long-time couples who want to step up their game in the bedroom. No whips required!”

Vice
Dominatrixes and Porn Sites Report a Huge BDSM Uptick Since Trump Became President
By Carrie Weisman | March 5, 2017
“Across the country, it seems more people want to get spanked.”

Time Out
The best dominatrix professionals in LA
By Jakob N. Layman | March 14, 2016
“If you’ve suddenly found yourself in the market for a dominatrix, these pro-dommes are the best LA has to offer.”
